2025: What Kind of Year Has It Been?

When life gives you rain, go look at the waterfalls. That’s been a mantra I’ve been trying to cling to for the end of what has been a tumultuous year for many, many people. Always look on the bright side of life is amongst the most trite of aphorisms, and rarely does following its advice lead to actually fixing a situation, but it can at least improve your mood for the time being. Here are some examples of the gushing waterfall ramifications provided by rainy torrents experienced by me in 2025:
– In May we visited Norway for the first time, starting in Bergen then heading to Oslo. On the first day in a new city my favourite thing to do is go for a run and have a little explore, which is exactly what I did. Bergen is beautiful and very pedestrian friendly, and there were many people out and about enjoying the lovely weather and taking photos of the stunning scenery. On my run I made an effort to not obstruct one such photographer and, in doing so, managed to miss a curb and fell over in a manner described by passers-by as looking “Not good” and “Very bad”. I limped back to our AirBnB and spent the rest of the trip hobbling around (I still went for ill-advised daily walks and even a couple of hikes, because I am very bad at both keeping still and looking after myself, this should be a surprise to no-one at this point). A few weeks after we arrived home I eventually went to the doctor about it, had an x-ray, and discovered I’d fractured my ankle, had to undertake physiotherapy, and wouldn’t be able to run for at least a couple of months. Running is how I stay sane, so that wasn’t a great time for me mentally or physically, but it felt so good when I started running and building up my distances again. I’m still not where I was this time last year, and if I’m sat down too long I have a bit of a limp when I set off again, but I managed my traditional Christmas Day half marathon in under two hours in the crisp, chilly sunshine, and that was a wonderful way to spend a morning.

– Speaking of Norway, when we arrived in Oslo we wondered why it was quite so busy – sure, it was the start of wedding season and Oslo is a typical stag/hen destination, but the city was teeming with people! It turns out we’d booked to stay during Holmenkollstafetten, the world’s largest relay race with 70,000 participants across over 5,000 teams, all seemingly mocking my inability to run alongside them. Needless to say this made finding a restaurant that evening somewhat tricky, and we ended up going a little further afield. The burger place we headed to was overflowing, but the tapas restaurant next door (Castello) was miraculously devoid of a queue. We ducked inside and claimed the last available table – right before the place was swarmed with hungry runners – and I enjoyed easily the tastiest prawns I’ve ever had. I’m still thinking about them over seven months later. Delicious.

– Most of my weekends this past year have been spent doing home improvements to our new house, often involving arduously digging up the garden, much to the chagrin of my spine. The garden seems to be mostly comprised of roots, rocks, and random things thrown away by previous owners, including broken tools, random assorted animal bones, and over thirty whole glass bottles and jars. My favourite thing found in the ground? A big rock. Not just any rock, this is a rough stone cube, approximately 18″ / 45cm to a side. What is it for? Why was it buried in the ground? What will I do with it now? I have no idea to any of these (our best guess is it was used for tying up horses), but it’s my new favourite stone, and everyone should have one.

– One evening, after several delayed trains, I arrived at my weekday flat later than usual, so it was in fact early Tuesday morning rather than late Monday evening. I went to open the door, but the key wouldn’t turn, the lock was jammed. I tried everything I had in my backpack to open the door, from a DVD wallet to a laptop charger cable, a penknife and a small vial of bike grease, all to no avail. The flat’s owner was understandably asleep, and hundreds of miles away. Every 24-hour locksmith I called failed to live up to their claim (10am was the best offer I received, from one of the two who answered the phone, compared to the dozen who didn’t). All the nearby hotels were fully booked or closed for the season. I despaired. Then, I used my ingenuity, perseverance, can-do attitude and, crucially, a discarded metal garden border divider I found in the front garden, to successfully break into the flat without causing any extra damage to anything other than my knuckles, and was buoyed on a wave of pride and relief to the deepest sleep I’ve slept in some time. Apologies to my wife, who got to impotently participate in this hours-long saga at the other end of a phone, and my parents, whom I awoke at 2am to come help (they live 30 miles away), mere minutes before I figured out the solution myself.

– Finally, where the initial mantra stems from, we took our annual trip to Scotland in September, this time heading to the Isle of Mull, where we spent much of our time hunkered down during a particularly bad storm that caused a power cut and delayed our departure from the island for an extra day. That sucked, but when I went for a few little runs I did find some particularly engorged waterfalls that put the biggest smile on my face.

So those are some things that happened this year. Let’s have a look at how I fared with my resolutions from 2025:

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2024: What Kind of Year Has It Been?

They say it’s a bad idea to compare yourself to others, especially the lives others share on social media, but I don’t think that’s entirely true. For reasons I won’t go into just yet, I could describe my 2024 as having been pretty terrible, but when I put it into perspective against the year some of my friends have had, it starts to look not all that bad. What do you mean you’ve had a year filled with hospital trips and chemotherapy? You’re living in an active war zone? Too many of your weekends were spent attending family funerals? My current living situation is temporarily a little uncomfortable and now I have to take a tablet if I want to eat cheese!

So yes, my year could have been better, but it also could’ve been a whole lot worse, and I’m grateful for just how bad a year some of my friends had, so mine may appear better in comparison. So, how did my year go? If you’re new to these annual posts, I’ll be taking a look back at the plans and resolutions I made this time last year, laugh raucously at how few of them I accomplished, and then make some more wildly implausible plans for the coming twelve months. Let’s get to it!

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2023: What Kind of Year Has It Been? Plus Plans for 2024

I’m still here! And so are you! That’s awesome, welcome back. To give you an idea of time, I’m starting writing this on Sunday 7th January, fully a week into the new year. It’s unlikely I’ll finish it today, and with the aim of posting this as soon as possible (before February would be great) I’m going to keep things comparatively brief this year. As years go, 2023 wasn’t the best. In my personal life there were some massive dips (the only grandfather I’ve ever known passed in February, the first truly significant death I’ve experienced in well over two decades) and I don’t think my year ever fully recovered, but we’ve all kept going, life goes on, and the rest of the year saw us take some wonderful trips back to Scotland, see some shows (Back to the Future and Groundhog Day are both excellent) and welcome a new nephew into the family. None of this sounds like it has anything to do with the resolutions I set this time last year, or my plans for the future, so let’s curtail this and move things along, shall we?

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2022: What Kind of Year Has It Been? Plus Plans for 2023

Hi there, reader! Happy New Year! Or Happy one-twelfth of the way into the New Year! Wait, January can’t already be almost over, right? Bloody hell. OK, see, this is what I’m going to talk about. I’ve had the majority of this post written, images and links set up, just waiting for me to finish it for a couple of weeks now, and I just haven’t been able to kick it out of the draft airplane and let the… the… the parachute of publication open up? No? That doesn’t make sense, but so be it. I could’ve posted this and moved on to edit a podcast or write an actual damn review, but instead I’ve kept thinking about how to finish this one or, more accurately, how to start it with this ultimately inconsequential opening paragraph. So that’s what I’ve decided is going to be the theme of my 2023, getting on with it. Not sure what to do on a morning where I’ve got lots of things that need doing? Just sodding pick one and start. Even less sure what to do on a rare day where there’s nothing urgent? Go for a run. Watch a film. Read a book. Go back to sleep. Whatever, just do it. None of this undecided, introspective nonsense, that just leads to stressing out and panic attacks. As such, here’s my update on how 2022 went, and my plans for 2023, compared to last year’s post, which can be found here: 2022 goals post. Not sure what to do now? Read it, silly!

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2021: What Kind of Year Has It Been? Plus Plans for 2022

Believe it or not, but this is actually my new year post, regardless of the fact that it’s being posted partway into the second month of the year. Wait, the second month of the year? As in, this new year began OVER A MONTH AGO?!? Whilst my mind continues to recover from reeling over the ongoing and what should be by now highly anticipatory passing of time, let’s get into how last year, 2021, panned out for me. As usual, we’ll be doing this in terms of the aims I set out at the start of last year.

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How’d it go? – September 2021

In September we took our now annual trip to Scotland, which was wonderful despite the best efforts of Stanley, my mother-in-law’s satanic spaniel who did his best to ruin every waking moment of the trip. Fortunately he failed, and we had a wonderful trip that I’d love to tell you more about but frankly there’s just no time! Instead, here’s the relatively few films I watched that month:

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How’d it go? – August 2021

I genuinely started writing this in August, and now it’s near the end of December and I’m five months behind! As such this post will just be short reviews of the films I saw in August, with my original post opening left in because I’ve already written it. The next few months – which I’m hoping to write before the end of the year but let’s not get our collective hopes up – will also just be film reviews, and I’ll tidy everything else up in an end-of-year wrap up post like usual. Apologies for the lack of activity here recently, it’s been a busy few months!

August is my birthday month, and saw me turn a frankly unbelievable 34. How I’ve made it this far is truly astonishing. For my birthday my wife and I went to London for the weekend under the ruse of going out for dinner, visiting some markets and having a general weekend away, but really so that we could buy a new sofa. I won’t go into it. Anyway, we had a mostly nice time (it’s easy to forget just how uncomfortably busy and crowded London can be, especially after over a year of mostly not going anywhere with anyone), and whilst in the queue for the Lego shop, in which my wife treated me to an R2D2 that’s currently presiding over the lounge, I spotted British comedian James Acaster a few spots ahead of me in the queue. If you don’t know James Acaster, get thee to Youtube and enjoy the next few days of content you’ll find, I can particularly recommend his cabbage-related escapades, check out his food-related podcast Off Menu and also cast your mind back to my Taskmaster contestant rankings, in which he achieved the silver medal just below Sally Phillips. Needless to say, I’m a fan, but he was clearly with family and so I didn’t bother him. Also I couldn’t foresee that conversation going very well, given that I was standing in the queue for the Lego store on my own 34th birthday, about to have my wife buy me what many believe to be a child’s toy of a robot from a child’s film. He also left the queue before going into the shop, so there was no chance of accidentally brushing past him and a faux “Oh, hey, you’re James Acaster! I love your podcast! Be my best friend etc.” Anyway, now I’ve been in or by the same shop as two contestants from season 7 of Taskmaster, after I spotted Rhod Gilbert in a second hand book shop in Hay-on-Wye. Kerri Godliman, Jessica Knappett and Phil Wang, I’m coming for you to complete the set!
As I’m monumentally behind on these posts there’ll be no updates on anything other than films this month, other than to say I still haven’t finished the Bill Bryson book, I very foolishly decided to fit a half marathon in at the end of July with Bournemouth Parkrun in the middle of it, which brought my shin splints back and put me out of running action once again, from which I’m still in recovery. I’ve been less grumpy this time, tried to eat more fruit, but also discovered (invented?) flights of cheese sandwiches. We had an abundance of cheese in our fridge (don’t ask) and I’ve been having four or five small cheese sandwiches, all different cheeses, some with chutneys, for lunch most days. Turns out I don’t hate all blue cheeses like I used to, and Sainsbury’s do a particularly creamy gorgonzola. You can all guess what that means health-wise, so let’s get into the films, shall we?

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